armywife120905's blog
10 June 2009
How do I deal with this?
I guess it's time to update my blog...for those of you who are my friends and have been following my blog, you know I am a military wife. My husband was deployed in 2008 to Afghanistan. I lovingly, faithfully waited for him to come home, praying every day he'd come home safe to me.
Well, he did come home safe, on New Year's Eve 2008.
Things just weren't right tho, since he got home...and after all I went through...he just walked out on me last week.
I am shocked, and hurt, and in so much pain, I can't even breath.
If anyone has any advice to help me through this, I'm all ears.
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4 comments
biggirlblue
Jun 23 2009 at 05:58 PM
That's very tragic. Maybe he needs some time and therapy for what he's been through. I don't know. It's so easy to make assumptions when I'm a world away. I don't think anything we say could possibly ease your pain right now. But please be sure to take care of yourself. You are an important person and to quote loosely -- this will pass and something more important will fill your life and thoughts. Take one day at a time.
armywife120905
Jul 02 2009 at 07:36 PM
Thanks...I'm trying to take care of myself, but it's not so easy. I'm struggling really badly right now...and I am trying to take it one day at a time.
MsAmericanBeautiesPlus2005
Sep 16 2009 at 11:21 AM
I am so sorry that you are having difficulties but family counseling, I believe would help if you really want the help. I am sure that you do. Try and work on it and if its worth saving, it can and will be saved. Continued thoughts on you and your husband. Understand that most service people who come back home experience some kind of seperation. Be patient! Be there for him and it will all come together.
armywife120905
Dec 26 2009 at 02:18 PM
He REFUSED to go to counseling with me...He has been gone now for six months...He obviously doesn't WANT to work on things...he wants me to give him a divorce.